This is just an idea, this is an impossible finish line to arrive.
Kaufman says that “the personal insecurities conferred by a failure to make the masculine grade, or simply, the threat of failure, is enough to propel many men, particularly when they are young, into a vortex of fear, isolation, anger, self-punishment, self-hatred, and aggression”.
Therefore, “within such an emotional state, violence becomes a compensatory mechanism”, a way to fight their “fear (or reality) of not having power”.
3.5. The fifth “P”: The Psychic Armour of Manhood