If we imagine a young couple starting an affective relationship we may have an idea of what could happened if in the first dates the boy hits the girl or the boy try to physically force the girl to do something she doesn’t want to… We’d say the odds of the girl saying NO, STOP, WHAT THE H**** ARE YOU DOING, GO AWAY… are pretty good, don’t you think?
But is it that easy to imagine the girl being so straight, so reactive, so clear and chose what she really thinks she should, in a situation when the one she loves is doing something not that obvious, not that grave, not that violent?